The Value of Money

Had a discussion with some intellectual friends today about the joys and burdens of money, and how as it relates to a fulfilling life of happiness, and whether the latter can be achieved with the former if one makes its acquisition his central pursuit. Here is a summary of my thoughts on the matter for all those curious:

1. Your family and genuine relationships (that is, those which would withstand any material stress test) matter the most in life no matter who you are or what's in your wallet.
2. “Friends” who hang around you because of your socioeconomic status are leeches and should be treated as such - in the medical sense - that is, you should only allow them close to you if they serve a purpose and then immediately discard them.
   
3. Money is an enabler of greater enjoyment of our immaterial possessions. It is perfectly rational to live in the moment instead of only being focused on working to make your "tomorrow" better since that day, as my friend pointed out, will never come if you set no clear goals and become caught up in a neverending race to acquire ever greater wealth. What if living in the moment, however, involves chartering a jet to Paris for a weekend with the woman you love? What if it involves buying a work of art you’ve always admired or populating your library with first editions? Do you need these things to be happy? Of course not. All man needs (loosely based on Maslow's Hierarchy) is physical nourishment, intellectual stimulation and love.
4. Thus I agree that it is worthless to chase money aimlessly (and especially if you must sacrifice your relationships, your youth or your health) but if you truly love what you do and by luck it happens that this profession makes money then you shouldn’t feel like your life lacks meaning just because you’re not engaged in what society deems to be more creative or nobler pursuits. A person who derives his greatest joy from structuring derivatives should not try to be a poet, painter or doctor. Doing what's against your nature is never right.
5. A litmus test I often ask myself is "Would I still do this job for free and if I just won the lottery?"
   
6. I’ve often wondered myself what other careers I could’ve pursued, but the reality is we have many talents and you won’t be able to explore and grow them all fully. Thus you have to compromise and pick your path, and in doing so choose the one that you will enjoy the most, not the one that will lead you to the greatest riches, fame or power. I don’t know many people who achieved greatness in finance or otherwise who did not love what they did. You need passion to excel.